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Your Career Is Not a Race

Lucy Bolan • August 18, 2026

Why comparing your career to everyone else’s on LinkedIn can make you lose sight of your own next chapter

I’ll admit it. I’ve been guilty of it myself.


You open LinkedIn on a Monday morning, and within about 30 seconds, it can feel like everyone else is absolutely smashing their career.


  • Someone has landed a new role.
  • Someone has been promoted.
  • Someone is celebrating a big career milestone.
  • Someone has just announced an exciting new chapter, complete with a very polished photo and a few words about how grateful they are for the journey.


And you’re sitting there thinking, What am I doing wrong?


Perhaps you’re still looking for your next role. Maybe you’ve been trying to secure that promotion. Your contract is coming to an end, and you’re not sure what comes next.


Or perhaps you’re simply feeling like your career isn’t moving as quickly as everyone else’s seems to be.


Here’s the reminder I think we all need every now and then:

Your career is not a race.


LinkedIn is not the whole story


As a recruiter, I spend a lot of time on LinkedIn. It’s part of my job.


But I’m also very aware that what we see on LinkedIn is only a tiny snapshot of someone’s career.


  • We see the announcement that someone has landed a fantastic new role.
  • We don’t see the applications that went unanswered before it.
  • We see the promotion.
  • We don’t see the years of work that went into getting there, or the conversations that didn’t go their way.
  • We see the career milestone.
  • We don’t see the moments of self-doubt, the rejected applications, the interviews that didn’t work out or the months they spent wondering what they were going to do next.


And that’s not a criticism of LinkedIn. I use it too. I share the good things happening at New Chapter Talent and in my own career.


But we all need to remember that social media is the highlight reel.


It’s not the full story.


Careers rarely move in a straight line


After more than 20 years working in marketing recruitment, I’ve seen a lot of careers.


And very few of them have followed a neat, upward trajectory.


Careers accelerate.


They stall.


They change direction.


Sometimes they come to a fairly dramatic end that you absolutely did not see coming.


Sometimes the role you thought was going to be your big next step turns out to be completely wrong for you.


And sometimes a sideways move, a contract role or a step that initially feels like a backwards move ends up opening a door you never expected.


That’s one of the things I love about recruitment.


You get to see the whole picture.


I’ve spoken to candidates who have been made redundant and gone on to find a role that was a much better fit.


I’ve seen people leave a senior position to take a role with less responsibility because it gave them the flexibility they needed at that point in their life.


I’ve watched people take contract roles because they weren’t sure what they wanted next, only for that contract to lead somewhere completely unexpected.


There isn’t one version of what a successful career looks like.


And there certainly isn’t one timeline.


The danger of measuring your chapter against someone else’s


When you’re looking for work, it can be particularly difficult not to compare yourself to other people.


  • You might see someone announcing their new role and wonder why you haven’t found yours yet.
  • You might see someone being promoted and start questioning whether you’re progressing quickly enough.
  • You might even start making decisions based on where you think you should be, rather than what is actually right for you.


That’s where I think comparison can become unhelpful.


Because you’re comparing your reality with someone else’s edited version of theirs.


  • You don’t know what is happening behind the scenes.
  • You don’t know how long they were looking.
  • You don’t know whether the role is actually right for them.
  • And you certainly don’t know what their career will look like six months from now.


The same applies when you’re hiring.


It can be tempting to look at what other businesses are doing, the people they’re hiring or the seniority of their marketing teams and think you need to keep up.


But recruitment isn’t about keeping up.


It’s about finding the right person for the right business, at the right time.


The same principle applies to your own career.


So, what can you focus on instead?


If you’re starting the week feeling like your career has stalled, try bringing the focus back to what you can actually influence.


  • Perhaps it’s updating your CV.
  • Perhaps it’s reaching out to someone in your network you haven’t spoken to for a while.
  • Perhaps it’s having a conversation with a recruiter.
  • Perhaps it’s applying for one role that genuinely interests you, rather than sending ten applications just because you feel you should be doing something.


Or perhaps it’s taking a step back and asking yourself a more useful question:

What do I actually want my next chapter to look like?


  • Not what does everyone else’s look like.
  • Not what do I think I should be doing by now.
  • Not what does LinkedIn tell me success looks like.


What do I want?


That question can be surprisingly powerful.


Your next chapter doesn’t need to happen on anyone else’s timeline


At New Chapter Talent, I talk to marketers and sales professionals every week who are at very different points in their careers.


  • Some are actively looking.
  • Some are quietly considering what might be next.
  • Some are completely happy where they are but want to understand what the market looks like.
  • And some have absolutely no idea what their next move should be.


All of those are okay.


We founded New Chapter Talent because I wanted recruitment to feel more personal. After more than 20 years in the industry, I know a career move is about much more than matching a CV to a job description.


It’s about the team you’re joining.


  • The culture.
  • The manager.
  • The personality fit.


What you want from your career at that particular point in your life.


And sometimes, it’s simply about having a conversation with someone who understands the market and can give you an honest perspective.


That’s also why I’ve always wanted New Chapter Talent to be about more than recruitment. Through CMO Chapters, our CMO Collective Lunch Club, the Marketing Leadership Awards and our Marketing Mentorship Program, we’ve created spaces for people to connect, learn and support each other.


Because careers are built through people as much as they are through job titles.


So if you’re looking for work this week, or wondering what might come next, try not to measure your progress against somebody else’s.


Focus on the next step in front of you.


Your career doesn’t need to move at the same pace as everyone else’s.


And you never really know where one conversation, one introduction, or one opportunity might lead.


If you’re thinking about your next chapter and want to have a chat about the market, the types of roles out there or simply where your experience could take you next, I’d love to hear from you.


Sometimes the most useful career conversation is the one you weren’t expecting to have.

LUCY BOLAN

Director | Principal Marketing & Sales Recruitment Consultant


Founder and Director of New Chapter Talent, with 20 years of experience working in recruitment across the UK, New Zealand and Australian markets – with a strong focus on marketing, and now sales.

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